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This Is Why You Should Date Multiple People, at the Same Time


There is nothing wrong with dating. Dating, to me, means the act of setting aside a specific place and time to spend with someone that you are pursuing for a romantic relationship with. You are dating in the hopes of having some type of romantic or sexual relationship with that individual, but also to gain a friendship with them. Dating multiple people does not make you a bad person, or a whore. It is just a part of the dating process. It is ok to date multiple people at the same time. How else are you going to find what you want out of a potential mate/partner? It comes down to trial and error, if you ask me. You have to find out what you like, and what you feel is best for you. No one else can determine that for you, but you. Here are some reasons of why I feel that dating multiple people at once can be beneficial for you:

  • It can improve your dating and social skills.

  • It gives you a variety of people you may want to go out with, and want to be around. You do not have to date the same type of person all the time. It allows you to step out of your comfort zone.

  • You won't waste your time by only dating one person at a time.

  • It helps you to not get too emotionally or intimately involved with someone too quickly.

  • You increase your odds of finding the love of your life with each person you date.

I don't know about you, but I love the idea of "dating." You have the freedom of having a variety of choices, in the person you want to spend your time with. I would just suggest that you are honest with the people that you are dating, and let them know that they are not the only one that you are dating. If they don't like your choice, or don't agree, you have the option of moving on. That can be a sign that that person is not the right one for you, at this time in your life. This is your life, and you should be in control of it, and of your happiness. If you choose to only date one person at a time, because you feel it is right for you, by all means do that. Remember, it is your life, and you have control of your own happiness. ...happy dating, and be safe!

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